Sometimes I Wonder if my Husband Goes to Work

Spencer assures me that he works hard. He comes home tired and full of stories of new projects or how designers work with surgeons testing surgical tools on pigs. But sometimes, when he sends me sketches like these:S.T.ReynoldssSketchor these:S.T.ReynoldsSketchI wonder. Or at least I wonder what he is actually designing.STReynolds Sketches

Especially when he tells me that he spent the day at a work retreat golfing or the afternoon in a water balloon fight. One thing is for sure–J&J is far too much fun! Speaking of water balloons, filling them up just got easier. Check out this sweet Kickstarter. The project is over now, but why has it taken so long to invent this?

[Editor’s note] These sketches actually come from “sketch Fridays” — two hours at the end of the week that the Co-ops and contractors work on their sketching skills by drawing whatever they want.

Belterra Park

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Remember how we spent a Saturday morning helping with Feed Ohio? Spencer and I were asked to help at that base because the home owner had to work that morning. About an hour before we were done, the home owner came back. Turns out he had to work because he is a horse trainer, was a jockey for 14 years, and had six horses that he works with racing that afternoon. We’re so close to where the Kentucky Derby is held that attending a horse race has been on the bucket list. So we shamelessly invited ourselves along, and about an hour later, found ourselves at the races.

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Our gracious host. We pestered him with questions for about 5 hours.

horse stallsIn between races he took us back to the stalls

horse cooling off(cooling off)

winning horseanother winning horseand to watch the horses he works with get ready.

jockey prepApparently, jockeys are worse than wrestlers when it comes to losing weight. There is usually a stall in the jockey bathroom designated for throwing up before the race. On the other hand, if the jockey is too light, then extra weight is added to the jockey’s saddle.

sadling horsebelterra parkOne of the most exciting races of the day:
dead heat racingdead heatDead heat finish–aka both horses finished at exactly the same time. The winner of the race is determined by two pictures taken at the finish line (from either side). The back picture is taken using the mirrors next to the pillar marked “finish”.

We left sunburned, tired, and very satisfied. As someone who doesn’t bet and didn’t know much about betting on horses, I was surprised at how many horse owners treat their horses as assets and happily sell them off at the races. Attending the races with someone who works individually with the horses racing is the way to go.

Feed Ohio

Last winter I spent three days tucked away in the mountains for WIAC 2014: Religion and Diplomacy: Bridging Religious Divides. College students from all over the US, including West Point and the Air Force Academy, gathered to network, listen to experts, and create policy recommendations under the guidance of mentors.
diplomatic dinnerDinner the first evening and an intense discussion with a Georgetown student about the Mennonite Center for Justice and Peacebuilding. Apparently the Mennonites are a big deal in the Peacebuilding world. And yes, (because I’ll get asked this) they can fly on airplanes. Otherwise some of their negotiating tactics would be fairly useless.

Wheatley International Affiars ConferenceThis shot gives you a feel for our setting. If it weren’t snowing, you’d be able to see the view behind the speakers.

Mt. TimpanogosHere’s nearly that same view from one of the clear mornings. When this is your backdrop, how can you not believe in the ability to negotiate peace?

diplomatic discussionThe BYU students were lucky enough to prepare for the conference with a professor who’d worked for the State Department for several years on the Arab-Israeli peace process and got so excited about our lesson material that one time he stayed up until 3 am the night before our class thinking about the implications of what we read.

religion and diplomacyA shot of one of my roommates laughing. One of my favorite memories of this conference is having a interesting discussion with my two roommates about how I’d just gotten engaged, and then later hearing my roommate call her mother and say “Mom, they’re just like us.”

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Cross-country skying during our break with my other roommate. Turns out I don’t seem as slow when I only go with a group of people who have never skied before. I wish I’d captured a shot of our mentor coming with us. The picture below will have to do instead. Our roundtable chair, Richard Ruffin, is both brilliant and energetic. He also knew when to coach/teach, and when to let our group think through the problem ourselves, and he had personal experience in South Sudan which was the country that my group chose to focus on.
Richard RuffinLimited cell service and no transportation off the mountain forced bonding.

WIACDelivering our group’s final product: Using Faith-based NGOs, oil companies, and international diplomacy to negotiate a peaceful solution to the religious conflict in South Sudan.

religion in diplomacyPhoto credit: Aspen Grove Family Camp Staff

A beautiful conference full of inspiring, passionate, people in a beautiful setting. So what does this have to do with this post’s title, “Feed Ohio”?

A couple Sundays after we arrived in Ohio, I was asked to help organize a food drive as part of Governor Kasich’s “Feed Ohio” initiative. This is perfect, I thought, I just came from a conference all about interfaith and community cooperation.

Reality check: The first few months of planning were pretty discouraging. We couldn’t get other churches to return our calls, letters, or emails, and even our own church group scheduled a (much more fun) campout for the same day as the food drive. I grew pretty disillusioned with the whole process, and am embarrassed to say was not much help.
Feed OhioThankfully, other people stepped up. Our church’s leaders rescheduled the camping trip and ended church early the week before the food drive to organize our congregation. The main lady in charge of the food drive personally visited several churches and discovered that many of them were afraid that we would steal their members. Once she explained that we were not using this drive as advertising, but simply to get food for the local food shelter, and that we’d love to put their names on the website, many of them were happy to help. Spencer designed fantastic flyers and posters. Several members of our church reached out to friends and neighbors, asking them to donate. Even the weather cooperated–September 13th was beautifully cool. Plus people still felt patriotic after September 11th.

Feed Ohio Volunteersphoto cred: Trevor Stansbury

Total Success. (And I’m not being modest when I say not because of me). Mostly, I’m thankful that it’s over. And thankful for good people everywhere, whether in South Sudan or Ohio, who are willing to work together for a common cause.

Lion House Luncheon

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In the end I wouldn’t recommend hosting a lunch or dinner at The Lion House, but I would drop by for their famous rolls and honeybutter or a private dinner in one of their smaller rooms on the second floor. My favorite part about deciding on this venue was the tasting dinner that Spencer and I enjoyed together a few months before the luncheon.

Photocredit goes to Fenton and Jordan Zobrist Photography.

Tom + Chee

In Utah, whenever we told people that we were moving to Cincinnati, the first place they told us to visit was Tom + Chee. I’m not sure why this is the one place that Utahans know about in Cincinnati, maybe it has to do with the restaurant’s success on “Shark Tank” or “Man v. Food Nation”, but they were right. We’ve been before, but the delicious foodie weekend in upstate Ohio inspired us to drive downtown for another visit of Tom + Chee’s twist on two comfort foods. Tomato soup and gourmet grilled cheese sandwiches = Tom + Chee.

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I love this shot because it shows how bright and friendly the restaurant is compared to the rest of that part of the city. As we pulled up, the waiters ran out in the rain to tell us that we didn’t need to pay for parking, it seems a pretty nice restaurant and very clean as they use a Portland hood cleaning to keep everything in perfect condition.

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You can order a sandwich from the suggested lists (which are still handwritten in chalk keeping the family run feel) or create your own concoction.We opted for the Mac + Chee and the Flying Pig.

Tom+ Chee sandwhichLastly, dessert: grilled cheese doughnuts.

desserttwoBarbara Blue: Blueberry Compote+Ham+Brie+Donut. A surprisingly delicious heart attack on a plate.
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